“And like any normal healthy couple, we entered Stage 4: Comfortable. Now being comfortable isn’t necessarily bad, it’s when we can truly be ourselves. But it depends what you do with that comfort. Some use it positively, continuing to work at their relationship and grow together. But.. others allow it to create distance. For Marissa and I, it made us take each other for granted.
Whether it’s taking each other for granted or people changing over time.. the bottom line is: someone stops trying and the feelings aren’t as strong as before..”
Marissa: “What do you think will happen if we don’t end up together? Are we gonna hate each other? Do you think we’ll keep in touch?”
Josh: “I think, that if life separates us.. and we end up in totally different places. I’ll always remember where our paths aligned for this period in time, and I’ll be thankful for that. And hope that.. wherever you are.. you’ll be thankful too. And I think that’s the best we can wish for.“
this video had me crying SO hard because it definitely hit home.
I don’t want to be strangers again.